Libra
1. Dealing with people…
a. …is a challenge. I am a good mediator so I don’t mind helping out with conflicts. In general my mate is the most important person in my life and it is there that my skills in dealing with others really matter.
b. …is something I don’t know whether I’m good at or not. I know that I am a kind and good person, but I am probably more comfortable dealing with those I am closest to.
c. …is something I am good at. I am often the leader when it comes to organizing people for a good cause.
d. …sometimes seems to be hardly worth it. These days it seems that so few people have any moral fiber. Call me cynical, but all in all I am rather disappointed with humanity.
2. Romantic love…
a. …is what makes the world go round. I am so thankful for the partner that I have. The rest of the world could just disappear and I doubt we’d really notice.
b. …is a big part of what makes the world go round. I am so thankful for the partner that I have. We inspire the ideals of one another. Without my partner I don’t think I could achieve the important goals that I serve. At the very least it would be a lot less fun.
c. …is a big part of what makes the world go round. I am so thankful for the partner that I have. My partner is helping me to strengthen and rebuild myself.
d. …is what makes the world go round. Though I am very young, I know the perfect person is out there waiting for me and I will meet them when the time is right.
e. …is highly overrated.
f. …is an exciting challenge that I am fully ready to meet.
g. …is about the science of “opposites attract”.
h. …is very painful but I keep trying.
3. Justice…
a. …does not exist in this evil world.
b. …is something for the courts and the politicians to decide.
c. …is less important to me than fairness. It is important for me to be fair in my relationships.
d. …is a cause I serve with Divine assistance.
e. …is one of the most important values in life.
4. Making decisions…
a. …is pretty easy for me. I take into consideration the opinions of those I love and with their help I can usually do the right thing.
b. …well… I’m usually the driver of that car with a long string of traffic behind it because I can’t decide when to turn left. If you take me to a restaurant you may have to wait a long time before I am ready to place my order.
c. …is very easy for me. I am very decisive and people who aren’t just drive me crazy.
d. …is very easy for me. I am very decisive but also understand that not everybody is the same way.
5. My life purpose…
a. …is to help the one I love in any way that I can and work to make our relationship a happy one. Even though the two of us are quite different, I know I will be successful in this purpose.
b. ...is to live in harmony with my soul mate. I am living it live.
c. ...is to live in harmony with my soul mate. It might seem naïve but I know this will happen, I can sense it in my bones.
d. …is to get out of the hell that I’m living in right now.
e. …is to heal myself.
f. I wish I knew what my life purpose is. I don’t even know who I am.
g. …is an extremely important and well defined part of my life. I am dedicated to my work in the world.
h. …is to build a strong sanctuary for myself.
6. I think the information on this site...
a. … is unsettling. I don’t really know why, but I don’t like some of the things that it has to say.
b. … isn’t very good. I can see a lot of holes in its logic.
c. … is inspiring and uplifting. I really like it.
d. …will help a lot of people.
e. …is fascinating. I’d like to be in third stage but don’t know how it would be possible.
f. …is OK. I guess I could take it or leave it.
7. Visualizing infinity
a. Everyone knows that the human mind cannot truly conceive of infinity.
b. …is literally quite easy for me. I can see it clearly in my mind.
c. There isn’t any real point to doing that is there?
d. ...is not very easy for me to do but with practice I can make some headway.
8. When there is a big crisis my first instinct is to…
a. Look after those in my care or turn to the person who is supposed to look after me.
b. Find a safe place to hide.
c. Find a safe place to hide. I can feel myself shutting down.
d. Lose it.
e. Panic and try to look after others. What happens to me doesn’t matter.
f. Get ready to attack the threat.
g. Take my cues from the situation. See the bigger picture and do whatever is needed while staying in touch with myself.
h. Turn to the spiritual help that is always there for me.
9. My life
a. …is really quite ordinary and average. I can’t say I have any reason to complain.
b. …is really quite ordinary and average. Most people do have a pretty rough life really and I guess mine is no exception. But there is no reason to make a big deal about it. If you keep going you can get things to turn out OK. Keep your head down and your ears clean.
c. …is driving me crazy with the amount of crisis I am experiencing right now. When will it all be over? It seems like it is just one thing after another.
d. …is an exciting adventure. Might be cliché but it is true. I don’t mind being a happy cliché.
10. Happiness
a. …comes and goes, everyone knows that. No reason to be unhappy with your lot in life though.
b. Is anyone really happy?
c. …seems to always be an illusive dream for me.
d. …is something I am working hard to one day achieve. I’ll never give up on trying to get what I want out of life.
e. …is something I am working hard to one day achieve. I keep working on myself and my emotions. I am determined to solve life’s spiritual riddle.
f. …is my natural state of being. I don’t really think about it.
g. …is my natural state of being. Whatever may be happening on the surface of life I have a deep core of basic contentment. I feel I’ve solved many of the riddles of life.
11. When things get rough…
a. I often feel like I just can’t take it anymore. Sometimes I want to completely throw in the towel and give up on life and myself. My life right now seems so difficult and then it gets even worse!?! It feels so hopeless sometimes.
b. …I know I can make it through. Beneath it all I have a deep sense of satisfaction in life. Even when things look rough I know there is a reason for everything that happens and I trust in the outcome of my life’s experience. All of life – positive or negative – is a grand adventure that I find fascinating to watch and feel honored to experience.
c. …I just take a break from it all. I read a book, go to a bar, talk to my friends. I have my ways of escaping. I just try to forget all about it. There’s really nothing else you can do except wait for the storm to be over. Then life gets back to normal.
d. …I’m strong enough to handle most of the difficulties in life. Things never really get that rough. I do whatever needs to be done and then relax and leave the rest to work itself out. Somehow life always tends to work out in my favor – more often sooner than later.
12. My parents:
a. Have always been happily married.
b. Had their relationships struggles but are now happily married (to one another or to other people).
c. Aren’t very happy but they stay together.
d. I did not have two parents.
e. Have split up. They are still not very happy people.
f. Have split up. One is happy, one is not.
g. Have split up. Single or married, they are both happy people.
13. The family I grew up in:
a. Was pretty normal and stable. I guess I should be thankful.
b. Was pretty normal and stable. I wonder what happened to me?
c. Was a mess.
d. Was a mess but we managed anyway.
e. Was a mess and I am now doing all I can to heal myself as a result.
f. Was a mess, but I’ve come a long way since then and can look back on all of my experiences with gratitude. I love my family but know when to keep my distance if necessary.
g. Had its problems, but in the long run things have worked out well.
h. Was absolutely amazing. I am so thankful to have been born into that family and realize how lucky I was to grow up in such a special environment.
14. My father…
a. …was/is a big disappointment to me (and/or was not present in my life).
b. …was/is a great guy. He was/is just an ordinary person but I was happy to be his child. I followed (or will follow) the good example of my parent’s marriage when establishing my own.
c. …was/is a great guy. He was/is a truly unique and progressive individual and I was happy to be his child. I followed (or will follow) the good example of my parent’s marriage when establishing my own.
d. …was/is kept away from me more than I would like by the difficulties in my parent’s marriage.
e. …was/is an unfair tyrant.
f. Set a wonderful example for me of how to live in the world so as to truly make a difference.
g. …and I have a really good relationship now. I’m glad we’ve ironed out the problems of the past.
15. My mother…
a. ...was/is a very sweet lady and my father’s soul mate. She gave/gives us a lot of love because she was/is happy with her life.
b. …is a loving and dedicated person.
c. …is really hard to get along with.
d. …is impossible to get along with
e. …really struggled in her difficulties with my father.
f. …saved me from a very bad situation when she left my father.
g. …left me, abandoned me – emotionally or physically – or was largely absent from my life.
h. …is largely responsible for my loss of my father.
i. …has taught me to trust in and act from my heart. She’s always supported my goals in life.
